Knowing who to marry, keys to happy marriage

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   After a very cool night, l can not help but to be in the warmest comfort of my blanket enjoying my sleep in the cold weather. I decided to write as usual to ease the cold weather. Marrying the wrong person will cause you enough pain and untold suffering. In a world were materialism have taken a lead, we hardly distinguish between love and fantasy.

Marry your friend in the sense that there will be fight, misunderstanding but at the end you guys are inseparable.

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  Almost every marriage starts out as a huge celebration. Together with their family and friends, each couple is full of hopes and dreams for their future life together. But the road to a happy marriage is far from easy. And as today’s divorce statistics demonstrate all too well, many couples opt not to complete the journey.

  It would be easy to blame our high rate of marital failure on things like not spending enough quality time together, allowing bitterness and resentment to build in our hearts and failing to keep communication lines open. There’s no end to books, articles and seminars that tell you how to improve these and many other aspects of your relationship. But while quality time, forgiveness and communication are vitally important to creating a happy marriage, if such things aren’t happening, it’s usually a sign of a much deeper problem. And until this problem is addressed, no amount of external behavior modification will work. 

  Marry someone that can accommodate your past,bear it and let bygone be bygone. Be with a best friend and not a fair weather friend.

Good morning, l am serving a purpose, you too can serve your purpose while you live.

©Usulor Godwin

(Story writer)

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